Hukuncin Miji Ya Sanya Miyau A Al'aurar Matarsa Idan Suna Mu'amular Aure

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Asalama alekum Malan ina kwana dafatan kuna lafiya ya kokari Allah saka muku da Alkairi Malan tanbaya ce dani, mijina in zai sadu DA NI sai ya sa miyo rashin ni'ima ne ko rashin lafiya ne shawara nake nema ko in akwai wani magani a ba ni.

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Wa'alaikumus salamu wa ramatullah

ALHAMDULILLAH.

Game da tambayar ki a kwai abubuwan lura kamar haka:

 1. Idan yana yin hakan ne saboda bushewar farji (wato ƙarancin ni'ima): To wannan ba rashin lafiya ba ne mai tsanani, amma yana nuna akwai ƙarancin ruwa (lubrication) a farji. Wannan na iya faruwa saboda Rashin motsa sha'awa sosai kafin jima'i. Gajiya, damuwa, ko fargaba. Yin amfani da wasu magunguna. Sauyin yana yi ko yana yin zafi. Ko kuma cutar “vaginal dryness {wato bushewar al'aura} ” da ke zuwa ga wasu mata.

 2. Idan yana yin hakan ne saboda jin daɗi ko al'ada ce: To hakan bai da matsala idan ba ya cutarwa, amma ba daidai ba ne ya yi amfani da miyau wajen jima'i saboda akwai haɗari daga ɓangaren lafiya, kamar: Zai iya yaɗa kwayoyin cuta daga baki zuwa gabanki. Miyau na iya kawo ƙaiƙayi ko ƙurajen ciki bayan jima'i. Don haka, ba a son amfani da miyau a matsayin man shafawa ya yin jima'i.

Shawarar da ya kamata a yi amfani da ita:

1. Ku dinga tsoma cikin hira da wasa kafin jima'i domin hakan yana ƙara ni'ima ga mace kuma shi ne abin da shari'a ta nuna domin samun cikakkiyar ni'ima.

2. A dinga yin amfani da man shafawa (lubricant) na halal idan akwai bushewa, kamar: Vaseline jelly (white) KY Jelly ko Aloe vera lubricant (wanda babu sina darin da ya ke haram ne a cikin sa).

Idan matsalar ta ci gaba ra bushewar al'aurar, to a ga likitan mata (gynecologist) domin a bincika ko akwai matsalar hormone ko infection.

Ku rika yin addu'ar neman albarka da tsari kafin jima'i kamar yadda Annabi (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) ya koyar:

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ، اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا

(“Da sunan Allah, ya Allah ka nisantar da mu daga shaidan, ka kuma nisantar da shi daga abin da za Ka azurta mu da shi.”)

Wannan addu'a ce mai matukar muhimmanci domin Allah ya na sanyawa jima'in nan albrka da kuma abin da za a samu da dalilin jima'in nan domin Annabi Sallallahu alaihi Wasallama ya ce: idan Allah ya ƙaddara samun haiwuwa ta dalilin jima'in to shaidan ba zai taba iya cutar da abin da aka samu ba

Shi ya sa malamai su ke cewa yana daga dalilan da ya ke sawa ana haifar yayan banza marasa tarbiyya shi ne rashin yin wannan addu'a kafin a fara jima'i

Don haka, hakan ba lallai ba ne ya zama rashin lafiya ta gaske ba, amma bai dace ya zama al'ada ba. A bar amfani da miyau, a koma amfani da abin da ya dace idan da bukatar hakan, sannan idan akwai matsalar bushewa wadda ta wuce kima, to a ga likita domin a gano musabbabin ta.

Allah ya kara dankon soyayya tsakaninku, da ma dukkan ma'aurata ba ki daya, ya sa zaman aurenku ya kasance cikin albarka da lafiya.

Allah ne mafi sani.

Zauren Fatawoyi Bisa Alkur'ani Da Sunnah. Ku kasance damu

ƘARIN BAYANI

Tambaya:

Assalamu alaikum Malam, ina fatan kana lafiya. Malam, tambayata ita ce: idan mijina zai sadu da ni kuma yana amfani da miyau a al’ura ta, shin wannan al’ada ce, rashin ni’ima ne, ko wata rashin lafiya ce? Kuma akwai shawarar magani ko matakan da zan iya ɗauka don gyara wannan al’amari?

Amsa:

Wa’alaikumus salam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

Alhamdulillah, game da wannan tambaya, akwai abubuwa da dama da ya kamata a lura da su. Amfani da miyau (cream, gel, ko wani man shafawa mara halalci) a al’ura yayin saduwa ba wani abu ne da shari’a ta umarci ba, kuma yana da matukar muhimmanci a san dalilin da yasa mijin ke yin hakan.

Na farko, idan mijin yana yin hakan saboda bushewar al’ura wato ƙarancin ruwa (lubrication), to wannan ba ya nuna wata cuta mai tsanani, amma yana nuna cewa mace tana fama da rashin ni’ima a lokacin saduwa. Wannan na iya faruwa ne sakamakon rashin motsa sha’awa sosai kafin jima’i, gajiya, damuwa, ko fargaba. Hakanan, wasu mata na iya samun wannan matsala saboda vaginal dryness, wadda likitoci ke bayyana a matsayin bushewar farji.

Na biyu, idan amfani da miyau ya zama al’ada ko don jin daɗi kawai, bai dace ba saboda akwai haɗari daga bangaren lafiya. Miyau na iya yaɗa kwayoyin cuta daga baki zuwa al’ura, kuma zai iya haddasa ƙaiƙayi ko kuraje a farji bayan saduwa.

Shawarwarin gyara wannan al’amari:

1. Ƙara motsa jiki da shagala kafin jima’i: Yin hira da wasa, motsa sha’awa, da taɓa juna kafin saduwa zai ƙara ruwa a farji, kuma zai sa mace ta ji daɗi sosai. Wannan shari’a ta amince da shi don samun cikakken jin daɗi a mu’amalar aure.

2. Amfani da man shafawa halal idan akwai bushewa, kamar:

o Vaseline jelly (white)

o KY Jelly (wannan halal ne idan babu sinadaran haram)

o Aloe vera lubricant (tabbatacce halal)

3. Bincike na likita: Idan bushewar al’ura ta wuce kima ko ta zama mai tsanani, a ga likitan mata (gynecologist) domin a tantance ko akwai matsalar hormone, infection, ko wani yanayi na lafiya da ke haddasa bushewa.

Hanyar addu’a kafin saduwa:

Annabi ﷺ ya koyar da addu’ar neman albarka kafin saduwa, wadda ke kare aure daga shaidan da kuma tabbatar da ni’ima:

Lafazi da Larabci:

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ، اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا

Fassarar Hausa:

"Da sunan Allah, ya Allah ka nisantar da mu daga shaidan, ka kuma nisantar da shi daga abin da za Ka azurta mu da shi."

Manzon Allah ﷺ ya ce:

“Idan Allah ya ƙaddara samun haihuwa ta dalilin jima’i, to shaidan ba zai taba iya cutar da abin da aka samu ba.”

(Riwaya: Ahmad, Ibn Hibban)

Saboda haka, wannan addu’a tana kawo albarka da tsari cikin mu’amalar aure.

Kammalawa:

Amfani da miyau bai dace ya zama al’ada ba. Idan akwai bushewar al’ura, a yi amfani da man shafawa halal, a ƙara motsa sha’awa kafin saduwa, sannan a nemi shawara daga likita idan matsalar ta wuce kima. Yin addu’a kafin saduwa yana ƙara albarka ga jima’i da haihuwa.

Allah ya ƙara dankon soyayya tsakaninku, ya albarkaci aurenku da lafiya da kwanciyar hankali.

Wallahu a’lam.

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