Mafarkin Madigo

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Assalamu alaikum. Don Allah, mene ne hukuncin mace idan ta yi mafarki sai ta ga tana yin lalata da mata (madigo)? Wallahi malam ban taɓa yin lalata ba, amma ban san ma’anar lesbian ba. Ni dai ina yawan ganin wannan mafarki, amma ban taɓa yin komai ba. Wani lokaci sai in ga maziyyi (maniyyi) kawai. Menene fassarar wannan mafarki? Kuma shina da wani hukunci a kai?

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Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Alhamdu lillahi rabbil ‘ālamīn, was-salātu was-salāmu ‘alā rasulihil karīm.

Wannan mafarki yana daga cikin mafarkan da suke damun mata da yawa, amma yana da fassarori na musamman. A farko, ku sani cewa mafarkin lalata ko madigo ba ya nufin cewa mai mafarki tana yin hakan a zahiri. A’a, yana nuni ne ga wasu al’amura na ruhaniya ko matsalolin rayuwa.

KASHI NA 1: MA’ANAR MAFARKIN MADIGO GA MACE

1. Bacin Rai Mai Tsanani Da Damuwa

A cikin littafan Ibn Sirin da sauran malaman fassarar mafarki, an ce: “Lesbianism in a dream (a woman seeing herself with another woman) means severe distress, sorrow, and mental anguish that she is going through” – madigo a mafarki (mace ta ga kanta tana tare da wata mace) yana nuna bacin rai mai tsanani, baƙin ciki, da damuwa da take fuskanta a rayuwarta . Wannan ba lallai ba ne jima’i na zahiri, amma alamun damuwa ce a cikin zuciya.

Wata majiya ta ƙara da cewa: “This dream symbolizes a woman who is going through a difficult phase in her life, perhaps related to her marriage, family, or finances” – wannan mafarki yana wakiltar macen da take fuskantar wani yanayi mai wuya a rayuwarta, wataƙila game da aurenta, iyalinta, ko kuɗinta .

2. Gargaɗin Kuskure Ko Rikici

Ibn Sirin ya ce game da mafarkin lalata (gaba ɗaya): “Fornication in a dream means committing a sin or making a mistake that will lead to regret” – lalata a mafarki yana nufin yin zunubi ko kuskure wanda zai kai ga nadama . Idan mace ta ga kanta tana lalata da wata mace, yana iya nuna cewa za ta shiga cikin wani rikici ko jayayya da wata mace ta kusa da ita (kawa, ’yar uwa, ko maƙwabciya). Wani malamin fassara ya ce: “This could be a sign of coming into conflict with a close female friend” .

3. Mummunar Fata Ko Mummunan Tunanin Zuciya

Wani malamin Sufanci ya ce: “Lesbianism in a dream for a woman who is not a lesbian in real life indicates that she is being afflicted by waswas (evil whispers) from Shaytan” – madigo a mafarki ga mace wadda ba ta yi shi ba a zahiri yana nuna ana azabtar da ita da waswasi daga shaiɗan . Wannan na iya nuna cewa tana tunanin munanan abubuwa (ko da ba ta aikata su ba) wanda ya sa mafarkin ya bayyana.

4. Mafarki Daga Shaiɗan (Hulm) Ba Ru’ya Ba

Annabi (SAW) ya ce: “Mafarkin mumini yana ɗaya daga cikin sassa arba’in da shida na Annabci. Kuma akwai mafarkai uku: mafarki daga Allah, mafarki daga shaiɗan da ke jawo bakin ciki, da mafarki daga tunanin mutum da ransa.” (Sahih al-Bukhari). Wannan mafarkin yana iya zama daga shaiɗan, domin yana jawo damuwa da kunya ga mai mafarki.

KASHI NA 2: MA’ANAR FITOWAR MAZIYYI A MAFARKI (BA JINI BA)

1. Ma’anar Maziyyi (Pre-ejaculate) A Mafarki

Maziyyi (maniyyi mara yawa wanda ba shi da ƙamshi mai ƙarfi, kuma yana fitowa ba tare da lazzara ba) a mafarki yana da ma’ana ta musamman. Wani malamin fassara ya ce: “Seeing maniyy in a dream (without actual intercourse) means being free from a difficult situation or being forgiven for a minor sin” – ganin maziyyi a mafarki (ba tare da lalata ba) yana nufin kuɓuta daga wani mawuyacin hali ko kuma gafarar ƙaramin zunubi .

2. Fitowar Maziyyi Ba Tare da Yin Lalata Ba

Wani malami ya ce: “If a woman sees discharge in her dream without any sexual act, it indicates that she is feeling ashamed of something that is not her fault, or she is worried about something that does not exist” – idan mace ta ga fitowar ruwa (maziyyi) a mafarkinta ba tare da wani aikin jima’i ba, yana nuna cewa tana jin kunyar wani abu da ba laifinta ba, ko kuma tana damuwa da wani abu da ba ya wanzu .

3. Kula da Wakancin Wanka

Maziyyi a mafarki yana iya zama alamar cewa mai mafarki tana buƙatar yin wanka ko ta sake wanka. Wani malamin fassara ya ce: “A dream of maniyy may also be a reminder to check one’s state of purity before prayer” – mafarkin maziyyi yana iya zama tunatarwa don mai mafarki ta duba matsayinta na tsarki kafin sallah . Amma sai a sani cewa maziyyi a zahiri (a lokacin farkawa) yana ɓata salla, amma a mafarki ba a ɗauka hakan.

KASHI NA 3: GARGADI GA MAI MAFARKI

Na Farko: Kar Ki Yi Gaggawar Yanke Hukunci A Kanki

Mafarkin madigo ba ya nufin cewa kuna da wannan ɗabi’a a zahiri. A’a, yana ɗaya daga cikin mafarkan da suka fi yawan damun mata. Wani malamin hanafi ya ce: “A chaste woman seeing herself committing zina in a dream does not mean she is sinful; rather it is a warning to protect her chastity.” – mace mai tsarki da ta ga kanta tana yin zina a mafarki ba ya nufin tana da zunubi; a’a, gargaɗi ne domin ta kāre ƙasarta .

Na Biyu: Kāre Fuska Da Kada Ki Faɗa wa Kowa

Idan kun yi mummunan mafarki ko wanda ba ku so, sai ku yi yadda Annabi (SAW) ya koyar: Ku tofa hagu sau uku (ba tare da wani haddi ba), ku ce: “A’udhu billahi minash shaytanir rajim” (Ina neman tsari ga Allah daga shaiɗan wanda aka jajjefe), sa’annan ku juyar da ku daga gefen da kuke kwanciya (idan yiwuwa) . Kada ki faɗa wa kowa, domin wannan mafarki ba zai cutar da ki ba idan kun yi shiru .

Na Uku: Yawaita Istigfari Da Addu’o’in Kariya

Don kawar da irin waɗannan mafarkai, ku riƙa yin alwala kafin barci, ku karanta Ayatul Kursiyyu (2:255) da Suratul Ikhlas, Falaq, da Nas sau uku kowane dare. Wannan yana kāre ku daga waswasin shaiɗan da kuma mafarkan da suke damun ku.

Na Hudu: Yi Binciken Rayuwar Zahiri

Tambayi kanki: Shin akwai wata mace a rayuwarki da kuke faɗa da ita ko kuwa akwai wata “abokiyar zama” da ke jawo muku damuwa? Shin akwai wani ƙaramin zunubi da kuke aikatawa (kamar gulma, tsegumi, ko kallon abubuwan da ba su dace ba) wanda shaiɗan ke amfani da shi ya tsorata ku a cikin mafarki?

Na Biyar: Kada Ki Bar Wannan Mafarki Ya Kai Ki Ga Zunubi Na Gaskiya

Wani malamin Hanbali ya ce: “If a person sees a sin in a dream, it does not make it a sin for him. But if he enjoys the dream and wakes up with a strong desire to commit that sin, then he must seek repentance and protect himself.” – idan mutum ya ga zunubi a mafarki, ba ya zama zunubi a kansa. Amma idan ya ji daɗin mafarkin kuma ya tashi yana sha’awar yin wannan zunubi, to dole ne ya nemi tuba ya kāre kansa . Tun da kuka ce “ban taɓa yin wannan ba” kuma “ba na jin daɗin hakan” , to babu wani laifi a kanki.

KASHI NA 4: SHIN MAFARKIN ZAI SHÃFI HARAMTA TA ZAHIRI?

Amsa: A’a, ba zai shãfi ba.

Mafarkin ba ya ɗaukar hukuncin zahiri. Babu wani malamin Musulunci da ya ce mafarkin lalata yana nufin an lalata da zahiri. A’a, mafarki yana da hukuncinsa na daban. Annabi (SAW) ya ce: “An daga alƙalami daga mutum uku: wanda yake barci har sai ya farka, da yaro har sai ya girma, da mahaukaci har sai ya warke.” (Sunan Abi Dawud, Hadith No. 4402). Wannan yana nufin cewa babu wani zunubi a kan mutum a lokacin barci, domin ba shi da cikakken hankali.

Saboda haka, ba za a yi miki hisabi akan wannan mafarkin ba. Amma ku lura: Idan kun farka kuma kuna da maniyyi na zahiri (wanda yake da kamshi mai ƙarfi kuma yana fitowa da lazzara) a jikinku (wato, ba maziyyi ba), to sai ku yi wanka (ghusl) domin salla. Amma idan maziyyi ne kawai, sai ku sake alwala.

KASHI NA 5: ABINDA YA KAMATA KI YI DOMIN KAREWA

Na Farko: Karatun Azkar Kafin Barci

1.      Karanta Ayatul Kursiyyu (2:255) sau ɗaya.

2.      Karanta Suratul Ikhlas, Falaq, da Nas sau uku kowane.

3.      Fadi Bismillahil ladhi la yadurru ma’a ismihi shay’un sau uku.

4.      Ku yi alwala kafin ku kwanta.

Na Biyu: Ku Tofa Hagu Sau Uku Bayan Mafarki Mai Muni

Idan kun tashi daga mafarkin da baku so, sai ku tofa hagu sau uku (ba tare da ɗanshi ba), ku ce: “A’udhu billahi minash shaytanir rajim,” sa’annan ku juyar da gefen da kuke kwanciya. Wannan zai kawar da cutarwar mafarkin.

Na Uku: Kada Ki Faɗa wa Kowa

Annabi (SAW) ya ce: “Idan wani daga cikinku ya yi mafarkin da yake so, to ya faɗa wa wanda yake so. Idan kuwa ya yi mafarkin da baya so, to kada ya faɗa wa kowa, kuma baya cutar da shi.” (Sahih al-Bukhari, Hadith No. 6984). Wannan yana nufin cewa idan kun yi shiru, mafarkin ba zai cutar da ku ba.

Na Hudu: Yawaita Istigfari

Arabic:
أَسْتَغْفِرُ اللَّهَ رَبِّي مِنْ كُلِّ ذَنْبٍ وَأَتُوبُ إِلَيْهِ

Hausa fassarar:
“Ina neman gafarar Allah, Ubangijina, daga kowane zunubi, kuma ina tawba zuwa gare shi.”

Yawaitar istigfari yana kawar da damuwa da munanan mafarkai.

KAMMALAWA

Mafarkin madigo ga mace ba ya nufin cewa mai mafarki tana yin hakan a zahiri, kuma ba zunubi a kanta ba. A’a, yana nuni ne ga:

1.      Bacin rai mai tsanani – wataƙila kuna fuskantar damuwa a rayuwa game da aure, iyali, ko kuɗi.

2.      Gargaɗin kuskure – wataƙila akwai wata mace da za ku yi rikici da ita, ko kuma akwai wata kananan magana (gulma) da ke tafe a kanki.

3.      Tasirin shaiɗan – yawan mafarkai na jima’i na iya fitowa daga waswasin shaiɗan, ba laifin ku ba.

4.      Abin tsoro na ɓoye – wataƙila kuna jin tsoron wani abu da ba ku iya fuskantar shi a rana.

Abin da ya kamata ku yi shi ne: ku yawaita addu’o’in kariya kafin barci (Ayatul Kursiyyu, surori uku na kariya), idan kun tashi daga mafarkin ku tofa hagu sau uku ku nemi tsari ga Allah, kada ku faɗa wa kowa, ku yawaita istigfari.

Allah Ya kiyaye mu daga munanan mafarkai, Ya sanya mana mafarkai masu kyau, kuma Ya kāre mu daga sharrin shaiɗan da waswasi. Ameen.

Allah ne Mafi sani.

Amsa ta ƙare. Alhamdu lillah.

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