Matar Da Take Jin Zafi Yayin Saduwa

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Assalamu alaikum Malam

Ina muku fatan sa'a akoda yaushe.

 Malam tambaya ta anan shi ne: matar auranda kajin zafi ko ciwo lakacin mu'amalar aure. shin akwai wasu shawarwari da yakkamata abàsu domin magance wannan matsalar?

Daga Ishak dan Karami

AMSA

Wa alaikumus salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

Shawarar farko da muke bawa duk matar da ke da irin wannan matsalaelr ita ce ta yi kokari ta ziyarci wani babbabn asibiti domin ganawa da kwararrun likitocin fannin haihuwa wato Gynaecologist. Idan suka dubata watakil za su iya fahimtar yadda natsalar take kuma za su ba ta maganin da ya dace da ita.

Amma idan ansha zuwa asibitin kuma ana shan maganin amma matsalar ba ta tafi gaba daya ba, wato ba a sanu waraka ba, Watakil irin ciwon sanyin ba na asibiti ba ne.

Domin shi ciwon sanyin da ke gaifar da irin wannan natsalar kala biyu ne. Akwai nirmal wanda aka sani. Shi ne wanda idan ansha maganin asibiti ake warkewa nan take. Sannan akwai kuma wanda ake samunsa ta sanadiyyar Jinnul Ashiƙ wato namijin dare. Wanda mace za ta rika gani kamar ana saduwa da ita a cikin barcinta.

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WALLAHU A'ALAM.

Tambaya:

Matar da ke jin zafi yayin saduwa

Assalamu Alaikum Malam. Ina fatan alheri gare ka koyaushe. Tambayata ita ce: matar aure na jin zafi ko ciwo yayin mu’amalar aure da mijinta. Shin akwai wasu hanyoyi ko shawarwari da ya kamata a bi don magance wannan matsala? Ta yaya za a tabbatar da cewa wannan ciwo ba zai shafi jin daɗin aure ba?

Daga Ishak dan Karami

Amsa:

Wa’alaikumusalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

Jin zafi yayin saduwa abu ne da ke faruwa ga wasu mata, musamman a farkon aure ko lokacin da farji bai saba da shigar namiji ba. Mafi muhimmanci, kowace mace da ke fuskantar irin wannan matsala ta fara neman ganawar likita mai kwarewa a fannin haihuwa (Gynaecologist). Likita zai iya tantance lafiyar farji, gano ko akwai infection ko wasu cututtukan jiki, sannan ya bayar da maganin da ya dace. Wannan mataki yana tabbatar da cewa ciwon da ake ji ba na wani babban cuta bane, kuma yana bai wa mace damar jin daɗin saduwa cikin lafiya.

Sai dai, akwai lokuta inda magani daga asibiti ba ya kawar da matsalar gaba ɗaya. A irin wannan yanayi, akwai yiwuwar ciwon yana da asalin ruhaniya, wanda aka fi sani da Jinnul Ashiƙ (Aljanin Soyayya). Wannan wani yanayi ne wanda mace na iya jin kamar ana saduwa da ita a lokacin barci, ko tana fitar ruwa mai kama da maniyyi, kaikayi, ɗaukewar sha’awa, rashin jin daɗi, bacin rai, ciwon mara, ciwon kai, ko yawan waswasi. Duk da haka, irin wannan yanayi ba ya nuna rashin imani ko laifi, amma yana buƙatar a bi hanyoyin tsarkaka da addu’o’i na Musulunci don kare mace da sassauta matsalar.

Annabi Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) ya yi nasihun kula da jikin mace da tausayi a mu’amala ta aure, inda ya ce:

«خَيْرُكُمْ خَيْرُكُمْ لِأَهْلِهِ وَأَنَا خَيْرُكُمْ لِأَهْلِي»

“Mafi alheri daga gare ku shi ne wanda ya fi alheri ga matarsa, kuma ni ne mafi alheri daga gare ku ga matata.”

(Sunan At-Tirmiziy: 3895)

Wannan Hadith na nuna muhimmancin tausayi, kulawa, da fahimta yayin kusantar aure. Rashin jin daɗi a lokacin saduwa ba laifi bane, amma yana nuna bukatar fahimtar juna, kulawa da lafiyar jiki, da amfani da magungunan Musulunci da shawarwarin likita. Ana amfani da ruwa mai dumi don shafa farji, man shafawa, da wasu hanyoyi na tsafta domin sassauta jin zafi. Hakanan addu’a, Qur’ani mai tsarki, da ayoyin kariya na iya taimakawa wajen kawar da duk wani tasirin ruhaniya:

«وَقُل رَّبِّ أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ هَمَزَاتِ الشَّيَاطِينِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ رَبِّ أَنْ يَحْضُرُونِ»

“Ka ce: Ya Ubangiji na, ina neman tsari daga sharrin shaidanu da kuma sharrin da suka zo kusa da ni.”

(Surah Al-Mu’minun: 97-98)

Idan mace ta fuskanci irin wannan yanayi, ana shawartar ta fara amfani da hanyoyin tsafta, addu’a, da shafawa da man shafawa kafin saduwa. Idan har matsalar ta ci gaba, yana da kyau a nemi karin shawarwari daga malamai ko kwararrun masani, domin a tabbatar da cewa jin zafi ba zai shafi aure gaba ɗaya ba.

Wallahu A’lam.

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