Aurena Yau Sati 7 Amma Har Yanzu Ina Jin Zafin Jima'i

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Assalamualaikum mlm barka d aiki mlm ina da tmby. Mlm na yi aure yau satina bakwai amma har yanzu inajin zafi idan yana kusantata kuma har yanzu banijin daɗi idan yana yi kuma maniyina be taɓa fitaba sai dai wani farin ruwa mai kamar nono kuma idan mijina yagama kusantata dana yi Nishi me ƙarfi kona miƙe tsaye sai maniyin da yashiga ya fito wani kokacima yana zarewa yake biyo bayansa kuma gsky yana fitowa da yawa.

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Wa'alaikumusalam warahmatallahi wabarakatuh

Toh yar uwa wannan ba matsala ba ne, kin san har yanzu baki gama budewa ba, sai hanya ta samu sosai sannan za ki daina jin zafi, amma kidinga anfani da man zaitun ko man Albabunaj kina shafawa a gabanki shi ma mijin naki ya shafawa a lokacin da za ku sadu zai hana ki jin zafi sam sam kuma ya yi sanadiyar samun hanya da wuri, sannan kidinga tafasa garin magarya, hulba da gishiri kina shiga ciki na minti 15 in sha Allah kin sallama da ji zafin.

Maganar maniyyi dama ai baya zama iya wanda ya dan ratsa jikinki to ragowar dama dole dawowa zai yi ko bai zo a lokacin saduwa ba zakiga yana biyo jikinki kaɗan kaɗan har zuwa wani lokaci, wanan ba matsala ba ne.

Sai maganar ƙin yin releases to gaskiya sai mijinki ya yi da gaske kuma ya gwada miki ƙwarewarsa wajen wasanni tare da mutsattsukaki sannan kuma da jumawa yana saduwa da ke ko da ya yi releases yazama ya wuce, idan zai yi wanan hikimar to ba shakka za ki releases kema ki ji abin da akeji.

Anan nake son naja hankali ga samari masu niyyar aure da kuma sabbin angwaye, lalai yana da kyau ku koyi yadda ake kusantar amarya budurwa sabida rashin sanin ilmin na cutar da yayya mata, domin sanadiyar daren farko yadda ake saduwa da mace da ƙarfi na yin sanadiyar daukewar sha'awar mace gaba daya wanda zai kaita ga rasa jin daɗin aure na har abada sabida in dai an jiwa mace cewa wani yana taɓa ma'aikatar sha'awarta tare da razana ta duk lokacin da ake ƙoƙarin saduwa da ita, shiyasa nake ƙara jan hankali da angwaye suna zama suna tambayar wanda suke da aure daga abokansu kamar mutum uku don su sami ƙwarewa ko yaya take hakan zai taimaka musu. Allah ta'ala ya sa mudace.

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Aurena Yau Sati 7 Amma Har Yanzu Ina Jin Zafin Jima’i

Assalamu Alaikum, Malam. Na yi aure sati guda da suka gabata, amma har yanzu ina jin zafi lokacin da mijina ke kusantata. Ban ji daɗi ba yayin saduwa, kuma maniyata ba ta fitaba sai wani farin ruwa mai kama da nono. Hakanan, idan mijina ya gama kusantata, wani ɓangare daga maniyarsa yana fitowa da yawa kuma yana bin bayan jikina. Shin wannan al’ada ce ko matsala ce?

Amsa:

Wa’alaikumusalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

Yar uwa, abin da kike ji ba matsala ce mai girma ba. Yana da alaƙa da yanayin jikin mace musamman a farkon saduwa da aure, lokacin da har yanzu jiki bai gama sabawa ba kuma hanyoyin haihuwa da jijiyoyi na farji suna buƙatar lokaci su sassauta. Wannan yasa za ki iya jin zafi ko rashin jin daɗi a farkon saduwa.

Abubuwan da za ki iya yi don rage zafi:

1. Shafa man shafawa mai lafiya: Amfani da man zaitun ko man Albabunaj kafin saduwa na iya taimakawa wajen sassauta farji da hana jin zafi. Hakanan zai taimaka wajen samun kusanci cikin sauƙi.

2. Magungunan gargajiya: Tafasa garin magarya, hulba da gishiri, sannan ki shafa a farji na minti 10–15 kafin saduwa, yana iya taimakawa wajen sassauta jijiyoyin farji.

3. Hanyar saduwa da hankali: Kada a tilasta saduwa da ƙarfi, musamman idan ba a saba ba. Miji ya kamata ya fara a hankali, ya sanin yadda jikinki ke motsawa, sannan a ci gaba da hankali da nishaɗi.

Game da maniyyi:

Maniyyi yana bin jiki bayan saduwa wani lokaci al’ada ce, saboda wani bangare na maniyyi yana riƙe da jikinki har sai jikinki ya mayar da shi zuwa hanyoyin da suka dace. Wannan ba matsala ce ba kuma baya nufin akwai laifi.

Game da jin daɗi da releases:

Yana da kyau a koya juna yadda ake kusantar juna cikin hankali da tausayi, musamman a farkon aure. Rashin sani ko amfani da ƙarfi na farko na iya shafar jin daɗin mace gaba ɗaya kuma ya rage sha’awar aure a nan gaba. Hakan yasa malamai da masana lafiyar aure ke ba da shawara ga sabbin ma’aurata su fara hankali, su yi nishaɗi da juna, su san yadda jikin juna ke motsawa kafin amfani da ƙarfi.

Karin shawara: Angwaye su yi haƙuri, su yi tambaya daga masu aure da suka sani, su koya yadda ake kusantar juna a hankali da tausayi. Wannan zai taimaka wajen gina aure mai daɗi da tsawon lokaci.

Kammalawa:

• Jin zafi a farkon saduwa ba matsala ce mai girma ba.

• A hankali da man shafawa da tsafta na taimakawa wajen sassauta zafi.

• Jin maniyyi da bin jiki wani yanayi ne na dabi’a kuma ba shi da laifi.

• Koyon yadda ake kusantar juna cikin hankali da tausayi yana da muhimmanci ga sabbin ma’aurata.

Wallahu A’lam.

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