Do Not Be Deceived By Your So-Called Lovers


I have a friend of mine that was asking says in Islamic law you're not allowed to touch a man that is not among your mahram so she wants to know who are those mahram & second if someone is dying due to love can you hug & kiss him but you are not married yet but just to save the Relationship?


وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله.

ﺍﻟﺤﻤﺪ ﻟﻠﻪ ﺭﺏ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻤﻴﻦ ، ﻭﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺳﻴﺪﻧﺎ ﻣﺤﻤﺪ ﻭﻋﻠﻰ ﺁﻟﻪ ﻭﺻﺤﺒﻪ ﺃﺟﻤﻌﻴﻦ، ﻭﺑﺎﻟﻠﻪ ﺍﻟﺘﻮﻓﻴﻖ،

A woman’s mahram is a person whom she is never permitted to marry because of their close blood relationship (such as her father, grandfather, great-grandfather, etc., and her son, grandson, great-grandson, etc., her paternal and maternal uncles, her brother, brother’s son, and sister’s son), or because of radaa’ah or breastfeeding (such as the brother and husband of the woman who breastfed her), or because they are related by marriage (such as the mother’s husband, the husband’s father, grandfather, etc., and the husband’s son, grandsons, etc.).

It is haram to hug, kiss, touch or any intimate act to anyone other than your husband or wife.

Oh!! You ladies folk, listen well, There is No Guy/Man who would die out of your love, they (Men) are using such adorable love words in order to convince you, so that you can admit yourself to him and he will instantly deceive you and render you a victim.

Undoubtedly, Intercourse and touching are only permissible for husbands and wives, or for a man with his female slave (concubine). It is haraam for you to have an intimate relationship and it is haraam for both of you to shake hands or to be alone together, let alone hugging, kissing and touching. All of that comes under the heading of Zina al-jawaarih (fornication of the limbs).

You do not know what will happen tomorrow, he may change his mind of marrying you, because circumstances may change and mind is dynamic.

Let assume that he has changed his mind!!. Then My sister! Ask yourself this question "What is the Vanity of hugging or kissing him, since he is marrying another lady, and you will marry another man??


The best fate of any love is marriage. And love in marriage life is the sweetest love and rewardable.

ﻗﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻲ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ "ﻟﻢ ﻳُﺮ ﻟﻠﻤﺘﺤﺎﺑﻴﻦ ﻣﺜﻞ ﺍﻟﻨﻜﺎﺡ"

ﻭﺍﻟﺤﺪﻳﺚ ﺻﺤﺤﻪ ﺍﻷﻟﺒﺎﻧﻲ ﻓﻲ "ﺻﺤﻴﺢ ﺳﻨﻦ ﺍﺑﻦ ﻣﺎﺟﻪ"

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

I do not think there is anything better for two who love one another than marriage.”

This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan Ibn Maajah.

So the best option for the lovers is to get married. If all the possibilities of getting married has failed, then they should stay away from each other and intensify their degree of seclusion for the fear of Allah's punishment and pestilence.

والله أعلم،

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