Wata 14 Mijina Bai Sadu Da Ni Ba

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Asslmu alaikum Malam dafatan kuma lfy Allah ya sa haka amin Allah ya taimake ku kamar yadda kuke taimakon mu tambayata ita ce meye hukuncin ma'aurata da suka yi wata (14) mijin bai sadu da ita ba suna gida ɗaya bashi da wata matar kuma meye matsayin aurennasu. Na gode. malam

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Wa'alaikumusalam warahmatallahi wabarakatuh

Rashin saduwa baya kashe aure Sai dai yana bayuwa zuwa ga kashe auran Idan daga mijinne to maye dalilinsa kuma shin lafiya yake? Idanma daga matarne maye dalilinta shin lafiya take?

Idan miji haka kawai babu wani dalili yadaina kusantar matarshi kokuma akwai dalili amma dalilin baikai wanda za'adau wannan matakinba to mace tanada hakkin tanemi saki idan yaƙi taje kotu takashe mata aure domin abin da ake yin auran sabodashi bata samu.

Saboda idan mace lafiya take tanacin abinci tana koshi ta yi shekara guda babu namiji kuma alhalin tasan daɗin namijin abin nufi ta taɓa aure to koshakka babu tana cikin kunci da damuwa balle kuma wacca take gani ga mijin tanadashi wannan ko shakka babu akwai cutarwa da zalinci Wannan shi ne hakikanin rashin adalci wanda Allah ya ce idan bazaku iya adalci dinba karkuyi auran.

Haka itama matar idan haka kawai tadaina amincewa da mijinta yakusanceta to wannan kuwa dama mace akwai hadisi da Annabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ya ce mala'iku zasu dinga tsine mata albarka idan taki amincewa da mijinta yakusanceta.

To dama irin wannan dawahala kasamu matar ce taki amincewa domin idan matarce taki amncewa aishi miji saki ahannunsa yake.

To amma abin tambaya shi ne shin akwai wani dalili dazaisa mace taƙi amincewa da mijinta yakusanceta kuma yazama bata saɓawa Allah ba?

Misali idan yazama mijin yana zina ko yanashan giya ko yana kisankai kokuma dai wani babban laifi wanda yake kaba'ira za ta iya cewa lallai ita saiya daina za ta amince dashi masamman zina dama Ƙur'ani ya ce mazinaci ya auri mazinaciya danhaka idan bakya zina mijinki yana yi baikamata kizauna dashiba ballema kiringa bashi kanki.

To shi ma haka mijin idan yazama matarshi yabata umarni taƙiji yahanata taƙi tadaina yimar abin da yakamata yayimata wa'azi ya yi mata fada intakama yadaketa duk taƙi yarda to ya halatta yakaurace mata yadaina biya mata buƙata harsaita zama tanemi sulhu ta tabbatar za ta kiyaye wannan yana cikin abin da suratun nisa'i ta lissafa amatsayin jankunne ga mata.

Allah shi ne masani.

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🕌 GASKIYAR HUKUNCIN MIJI DA YA BARI SADUWA NA WATA 14

▫️ Aurensu bai karye ba

Amma mijin ya aikata abin da shari’a ba ta yarda da shi ba idan babu uzuri.

Dalili?

Domin shari’a ta kayyade iyakar rashin kusantar mata zuwa wata huɗu kacal idan babu uzuri, kuma hakan shi ake kira:

الإيلاء – (Ilaa’)

— wato miji ya daina kusantar matarsa don cutarwa ko saboda kiyayya ba tare da uzuri ba.

Allah Madaukaki ya ce:

﴿ لِلَّذِينَ يُؤْلُونَ مِن نِسَائِهِمْ تَرَبُّصُ أَرْبَعَةِ أَشْهُرٍ ﴾

“Ga waɗanda suka yi Ilaa’ ga matansu, an ba su jinkirin wata huɗu.”

Surat al-Baqarah 2:226

﴿ فَإِن فَاءُوا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ • وَإِنْ عَزَمُوا الطَّلَاقَ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ سَمِيعٌ عَلِيمٌ ﴾

“Idan suka dawo (su sadu), Allah Mai gafara ne.

Idan suka ƙuduri saki, Allah Mai ji ne, Masani.”

2:226–227

⭐ MENENE HUKUNCIN SHARI’A?

✔️ Idan miji yana nan lafiya

✔️ Ba shi da wata hujja

✔️ Yana iya kusanci amma ya ƙi

✔️ Ya bar mace tsawon wata 14

To shari’a ta ce:

MACE NA DA ‘YANCIN KAI ƘARA WURIN ALƘALI

Domin haka ya saba da hukuncin Ilaa’ (wanda iyakarsa wuta huɗu ne).

A nan alƙali:

1. Zai kira mijin

2. Ya tambaye shi dalilinsa

3. Ya umarce shi ya dawo ya biya haƙƙin matarsa

4. Idan ya ƙi → alƙali zai raba aurensu (faskh)

Wannan ba saki ba ne daga miji — hukunci ne ta shari’a saboda cutarwa.

⭐ ME YA KAMATA MACE TA YI IDAN TA KAI KARA?

Idan bata so a raba auren, alƙali zai tilasta mijin ya koma ya sadu da ita.

Idan ta yanke cewa ba ta son ci gaba da rayuwa cikin zalunci, ana iya:

• Faskh (ɓata aure)

• Ko Saki ta hanyar shari’a

⭐ GA HADISAI MASU KARA BAYANI

1️⃣ Haqiƙan Mace Na Da Haƙƙin Jima’i Da Kulawa

Annabi ﷺ ya ce:

«وَإِنَّ لِنِسَائِكَ عَلَيْكَ حَقًّا»

“Matanka suna da haƙƙi a kanka.”

— Sunan Ibn Mājah

2️⃣ Idan miji ya hana mata haƙƙinta na aure ba tare da uzuri ba — zalunci ne.

⭐ ME YA SA SHARI’A TA KASHE IYAKAR WUTA HUƊU?

Saboda:

• Sha’awa

• Kwanciyar hankali

• Kare zuciyar mace daga fushin sha’awa

• Kare ta daga fadawa cikin haram

• Kariya daga azabar rayuwa

Idan mace ta taɓa aure, ta san bukatunta, sannan ta zauna shekara guda ko fiye ba tare da kusanci ba — dole akwai damuwa da zalunci.

⭐ INDA ZA A NUSAU:

Auren ba ya ɓaci da kanka.

Amma mijin ya aikata haram idan babu uzuri.

Mace tana da cikakken haƙƙi ta nemi shari’a ta raba su.

📝 TAKAITAWA

• Auren yana nan

• Amma miji ya yi kuskuren shari’a

• Wuta huɗu ita ce iyakar rashin kusanci

• Wata 14 > ya zama cutarwa

• Mace tana da haƙƙin kai ƙara

• Alƙali zai raba auren idan ya ga zalunci

Idan kina so, zan ɗora miki:

• Addu’o’in gyaran miji da zaman aure

• Matakan da za ki bi kafin kai kara

• Matsayin mace idan mijinta na da matsalar lafiya ko tabin hankali