Ni Mace Ce Mai Saurin Daukar Ciki, Ko Zan Iya Yin Family Planning?

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Tambaya ce da ni kamar haka: Ni Mace ce mai saurin daukar Ciki. Yanzu haka ina da yara guda bakwai. Amma dukkansu tsakaninsu ba ya Wuce Watanni Uku ko huɗu nake sake samun wani Juna-biyun. Amma dai daga ni har yaran dukanmu muna cikin koshin lafia.

To shi ne Wata likita ta ba ni shawarar cewa ya kamata inyi allurar Family Planning. To ni kuma ina so, amma ina tsoron Illolin dake tare da al'amarin. Shi ne nake neman shawara daga gareka.

NI MACE CE MAI SAURIN ƊAUKAR CIKI, KO ZAN IYA YIN FAMILY PLANNING?

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Da farko dai ya kamata mu kalli Haihuwa amatsayin wata kyauta ce ta Musamman wacce Allah yake yiwa bayinsa domin ya jarrabesu. Sannan sai mu kalli naki yana yin. Tunda ke da kanki kince wannan saurin ɗaukar cikin bai haddasa miki wata jinya ba, Kuma kina haihuwar Jariranki cikin koshin lafiya. Ina ganin bai zama lallai sai kinyi wannan Family Planning ɗin ba. Sai dai in rashin yin hakan zai cutar da lafiyarki. Amma akwai wasu hanyoyin da za ku iya bi dake da maigidanki domin samar da tazarar haihuwa atsakanin 'Ya'yanku. Misali:

1. Ki rika shayar da 'ya'yanki da kanki, da ruwan nononki Zalla. Kar ki rika amfani da Madarar Kanti. Domin kuwa yayin da mace take shayar da Nono ga jaririnta, Jininta na haila ne Allah yake juyar dashi ya tsarkakeshi ya zama ruwan nonon da jaririnta zai sha. Kuma mutukar mace ba ta yin haila, to sinadaran dake cikin mahaifarta basu yin shirin ɗaukar Ciki. Wato ciki ba zai shiga ba. (Duk da dai akwai matayen da sukan ɗauki ciki koda suna shayarwar sosai).

2. za ku iya daidaitawa da Maigidanki (in har ya amince) Ku rika jinkirta saduwa da juna a cikin Makonni biyu na bayan daukewar hailarki. Domin a cikin wannan tsakanin ne yawancin Mata suke ɗaukar ciki. Amma za ku iya saduwa a cikin kwana biyu (wato 48 hrs) na bayan kinyi tsarkin jinin hailarki. shi ma awannan tsakanin ba'a cika samun juna biyu ba. Amma idan duk waɗannan dabarun basu yi amfani gareku ba Kuma rashin yin family planning ɗin zai iya cutar dake ko kuma jaririnki, to shikenan sai kije ki yi ki nemi amincewar Mijinki da shawarwarin likitoci.

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NI MACE CE MAI SAURIN DAUKAR CIKI, KO ZAN IYA YIN FAMILY PLANNING?

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Ni mace ce mai saurin ɗaukar ciki. Ina da yara bakwai, kuma dukkan su ba tsakanin su fiye da watanni 3–4. Alhamdulillah muna cikin koshin lafiya, amma likita ta ba ni shawarar yin allurar family planning. Ina so in yi, amma ina tsoron illoli. Mene ne shawara?

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Alhamdulillah, abin farko shi ne mu fahimci cewa:

Haihuwa kyauta ce daga Allah, kuma jarrabawa ce da ake samun lada a cikinta.

Amma Musulunci ya yarda mutum ya yi tazara tsakanin haihuwa idan akwai dalilin lafiya ko hutun jiki, muddin miji da mata sun amince, kuma ba za a hana haihuwa gaba ɗaya ba.

A nan tambayar ki tana da bangarori biyu:

1️⃣ Game da lafiyarki

Ko da yanzu kina jin lafiya, samun ciki cikin kankanin lokaci na iya gaji da mahaifa, ya iya rage ƙarfin jiki ko na jinin uwa nan gaba. Likita tana ba da shawara ce don lafiyar ki, ba don a hana ki ’ya’ya ba.

Idan likita ta ce tazarar haihuwa tana da amfani gareki, to wannan shawara a karɓa ce.

2️⃣ Game da yin family planning

Family planning ba haramun ba ne idan:

an yi shi don lafiya

miji da mata sun yarda

ba a nufin hana haihuwa gaba ɗaya ba

Tsarin da yake da aminci shine wanda likita ta zaɓa bisa lafiyar ki, ba wanda aka kwaikwayo daga mutane.

Kuma ba dole bane ki yi allura ba. Akwai:

hanyoyi masu sauƙi

hanyoyin da ba su canza jini

hanyoyin da ba su gaji da mace

hanyoyin da ba su tsawaita haila

Likita ce za ta zaɓa miki mafi aminci.

3️⃣ Abubuwan da mutane ke kira “dabari” ba su da tabbaci

Akwai maganganu irin su:

“Idan mace ta shayar da nono sosai to ba za ta ɗauki ciki ba.”

“A guji makonni biyu bayan tsarki za a ƙyale a huta.”

Wadannan abubuwa ba su da garanti, kuma mace na iya ɗaukar ciki duk da su.

Don haka ba za su maye gurbin shawarar likita ba, musamman mace mai saurin ɗaukar ciki irin ki.

4️⃣ Abin da yafi dacewa a yi

Ki yi magana da mijinki cikin nutsuwa — domin Musulunci ya sa ya zama ku biyun kun yarda.

Ku koma likita don ta duba irin tsarin da ya dace da jikinki.

Idan tsarin yana kare lafiyar ki, kuma ba ya hana haihuwa gaba ɗaya — to babu laifi ku yi.

Musulunci bai hana ba, tunda dalili shi ne kariya ga uwa da jarirai.

KARSHEN SHAWARA

Family planning ba dole ba ne, amma yana zama halal kuma dace idan:

haihuwa da yawa ta kusa da juna tana iya gaji da uwa

likita ta bada shawara

miji da mata sun yarda

ba a hana haihuwa gaba ɗaya ba

Lafiyar ki abu ne mai muhimmanci, domin ita ce gadon ’ya’yanki.

وَاللّٰهُ أَعْلَمُ.