𝐓𝐀𝐌𝐁𝐀𝐘𝐀❓
Assalamu alaikum mallam inna kwana, malam Dan Allah inna da tambaya miji ne ya tafi ya bar mace da yara 4 yanzu shekara yaki yadawo bakuma yaturo musu komai sai karya kullum yace zai dawo Amma shiru Babu Kuma Wanda yasan Inda yake, yaki ya fada. shin yaya mastayin auren su yake?
HUKUNCIN
MIJIN DA YA YI TAFIYA YA BAR IYALINSA TSAWON LOKACI
𝐀𝐌𝐒𝐀❗️
Wa alaikis salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.
Ciyarwar iyali da shayarwarsu da kulawa da
larurorinsu na yau da kullum kamar sutura, muhalli, da ɗaukar nauyin ilmantarwa yana daga cikin tarin
nauye-nauyen dake kan Maigida amatsayinsa na Uba ga ‘ya’yansa kuma miji ga
matarsa kamar yadda Allah ya fada acikin Alƙur’ani :
"MAZAJE SUNE TSAYAYYU BISA MATAYE SABODA
ABINDA ALLAH YA FIFITA SASHENSU AKAN SASHE, DA KUMA ABINDA SUKA CIYAR DAGA
DUKIYOYINSU"...
Al Imam Ibnu Katheer Yace : "Namiji shine
tsayayye akan lamarin mace domin shine mai kulawa da lamarinta, kuma Shugaba
agareta, shine gaba da ita, kuma shine mai yin hukunci akanta kuma mai ladabtar
da ita idan ta karkace daga hanyar Allah.
Imam Abu Dawud ya ruwaito daga Wahbu yana cewa
wani bararren bawan Sayyiduna Abdullahi bn Amr (radhiyal-Lahu anhu) yazo yayi
masa sallama domin wata tafiya da zaiyi, sai Ubangidan nasa wato Abdullahi bn
Amr ya tambayeshi : "Shin ka bar wa iyalinka abinda zasu ci acikin watan
nan?"
Sai yace "A’a".
Sai Abdullahi (radhiyal-Lahu anhu) yace masa
"Tunda hakane koma wajen iyalanka ka bar musu abinda zai ishesu, domin
naji Manzon Allah Sallallahu alaihi Wasallam yana cewa : "YA ISHI MUTUM
LAIFI MAI GIRMA ACE YA HANA MUTANEN DAKE CI TA KARKASHINSA, ABINDA ZASU
CI".
Kuma acikin wani hadisin da Imamu Muslim ya
ruwaito Manzon Allah Sallallahu alaihi Wasallam bayan ya lissafa wasu hanyoyin
da mutum zai iya ciyar da dukiyarsa domin neman lada awajen Allah, kamar
ciyarwa domin jihadi, bayar da dukiya domin ‘yantar da bayi, yin sadaƙah ga mabukata, sai yace
: "WANDA YAFI LADA ACIKIN WAƊANNAN SHINE SUKUYAR DA KA CIYAR DA IYALINKA".
Don haka wajibi ne ɗaukar nauyin iyali domin yana daga cikin adalcin da Allah
ya wajabta shi akan duk namijin da yake da niyyar yin aure.
Idan kuma miji ya gaza sauke wannan nauyin, to ita
matar tana da damar kaiwa Ƙararsa gun mahukunta domin su bi mata hakkinta. Alkali yana da damar ya
kirawo waliyyan mijin naki, ya tilasta musu suje har inda yake su dawo dashi
gida.
Idan kuma hakan ya gagara, to shi alƙalin yana da cikakken
ikon raba auren bisa hujjar cewa mijin naki bazai iya ɗaukar nauyin iyali ba. Shi kuwa ikon ɗaukar nauyin iyali yana daga cikin sharudan Ƙulla aure, kamar yadda
Manzon Allah Sallallahu alaihi Wasallam ya fada. Yace :
"Yaku taron samari! Wanda duk yake da ikon ɗaukar nauyin iyali daga cikinku, to yayi aure. Domin yin
hakan shine zaifi runtsewa ga idanuwa, kuma yafi kiyayewa ga farjojinsu".
Kuma bayan haka ma ga kuma rashin sanin yaushe ne
zai dawo, ballantawa samun sauran abubuwan da ake bukata acikin aure kamar
biyan bukatar jinsi (ɗauke wa iyali
bukatar sha’awa) da sauransu, wanda shima ginshiki ne acikin hakkokin zaman
aure.
WALLAHU A’ALAM.
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