Ban Taɓa Samun Gamsuwar Jima'i Ba

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Ni dai yau kusan shekaruna 7 dayin aure kuma ina da yara biyu amma har yanzu ban taɓa gamsuwa ba a duk tsawon wannan shekarun danake saduwa da mijina ko ina da wata matsalace dake hanani samun gamsuwa??

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A gaskiya miliyoyin mata suna fama da wannan matslar ba wai ke kaɗai bace. Sai dai ina so na tabbatar miki bakida wata matsla lafiyanki lau. Da akwai abuwawan dake hana wasu matan samun gamsuwa na jima'i bakuma cuta bane akasarinsu.

Macen da ba ta zina idan ta yi aure takan iya ɗaukan sama da watanni kamin ta soma samun gamsuwa, wasu ma har sai sun soma haihuwa. Saboda shi gamsuwar mace a wajen mace ba kamar namiji bane, sai ta saba da jima'i sannan kuma mijinta ya iya gano wuraren dake saurin sata gamsuwa a lokutan wasanni da kuma lokutan jima'i.

Amma kuma babban matsalar rashin gamsuwan mata a lokutansu na jima'i yana tahallakane akan mazajensu, sune basu iya sarrafasu yadda ya dace da har za su gamsar dasu ba.

Maza da dama suna ɗauka da zaran sun zura azza karinsu cikin farjin matansu sukayi gwatso suka fidda miniyi shikenan macen ma ta gamsu.

Hakan ya sa maza da dama suna binyan bukatarsu kawai sai su rabu da jikin mace ba tare da sun gamsar da ita ba, sun tunda sun gamsu ai shike nan. Kashi 80 na maza basu da illimin sanin ɗantsakan mace shi ne sirrin jima'inta, maza basu da fahimtar da za ka kwana kana cancankar farjin matarka da azza karinka muddin ba za ka taɓa mata dantsa kanta ba aikin banza kakeyi ga wasu matan.

Haka nan kuma wasu mazan sun kasa fahimtar cewa da akwai wasu yanayi na kwanciyar jima'i da idan kanayi da matarka bazata taɓa samun gamsuwa ba ko dai saboda azza karinka baya iya zungoromata mahaɗanta saboda ƙanƙantarta ko kuma yana wuce mata makura saboda tsayinta a irin wannan yanayi dole ne ku fahimci yanayin da zai iya sa ta samu biyan bukata

Wasannin motsa sha'awa kamin soma jima'i sune sinadarin na farko dake ɗaura mace hanyar da zata samu gamsuwa. Musamman tsotsa da lasar farjinta musamman dantsa kanta, sakace da kuma sha mata nonuwa.

Malama bansan irin kokarin da minjinki yake yi a waɗannan bangarorin da na yi bayani ba, amma dai yana da kyau kin fito karara kin fadamasa abun da kikeso da yadda kikeso a miki ko a taɓa miki a lokutanku na jima'i.

Da fatan kin fahimta kuma kin gamsu. Lafiyarki lau, kawai oga ya sake salo. Zaki ji garau.

Allah ta'ala ya sa mudace.

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