Hukuncin Miji Ya Sadu Da Matansa Biyu A Lokaci Guda

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Assalamu Alaikum Malam Shin ya halatta namiji mai mata biyu ya sadu da su a lokaci guda a daki guda kuma a gado guda?

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Wa alaikumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

Shari'a ta sanya wa miji wajabcin raba dare da kwanaki a tsakanin matansa da adalci. Yin jima'i da wata a lokacin da ba kwananta ba—ko kuma a haɗa su wuri ɗaya—ba ya da tushe mai kyau a addini. Musulunci ya koyawa mutane kiyaye sirri da tsiraici tsakanin mutane, har ma a tsakanin matan aure, kowace mace tana da 'yancin keɓewa da mijinta a ɗakinta ko a lokacin kwananta.

Mafi yawan malamai daga mazhabobin Hanafiyya, Malikiyya, Shafi'iyya da Hanbaliyya sun bayyana cewa wannan bai hallata ba, saboda ya saɓa wa kunya (HAYAA), mutunci, da kuma hakkin sirrin aure. Allah Maɗaukakin Sarki ya ce

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"Kuma ku zauna da su cikin kyakkyawar mu'amala." (Suratun Nisa'i Aya ta 19).

Ma'anar "mu'amala ta alheri" ta haɗa da kiyaye mutuncin mace da sirrinta, da kuma guje wa abin da zai cutar da zuciyarta.

Allah kuma Ya ce

هُنَّ لِبَاسٌ لَّكُمْ وَأَنتُمْ لِبَاسٌ لَّهُنَّ

"Su tufafi ne a gare ku, ku ma tufafi ne a gare su." (Suratul Baƙarah Aya ta 187).

Malamai sun ce wannan aya tana nuna cewa akwai kariya, sutura, sirri da mutunci tsakanin ma'aurata.

Annabi (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) ya ce: "Lallai daga cikin mafi munin mutane a wurin Allah ranar Alkiyama akwai mutumin da yake saduwa da matarsa sannan ya tona sirrinta." (Sahih Muslim, Hadisi na 1437).

Idan har bayyana abin da ya faru bayan an gama yana da wannan tsananin haramci, to ai yin abin a gaban wata mace ya fi wannan tsanani.

Haka kuma Annabi (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) ya ce: "Kada wani namiji ya kalli al'aurar wani namiji, kada mace ta kalli al'aurar wata mace." (Sahih Muslim, Hadisi na 338).

Idan mace ba ta halatta ta ga al'aurar wata mace ba, to yaya za a ce ta zauna tana kallon mijinta yana saduwa da kishiyarta?

Saboda haka malamai suka ce wannan aiki ya saɓa wa koyarwar Musulunci.

A cikin mazhabar Malikiyya an yi bayanin cewa wajibi ne miji ya kiyaye mutuncin kowace mace. Ba ya halatta ya tara su cikin yanayin da kowacce za ta ga abin da ya shafi sirrin ɗayar.

Imam Malik da malaman mazhabar sun yi bayanin cewa irin wannan abu yana cikin abin da ya saɓa da muru'a (mutunci) da husnul mu'ashara.

Wasu suna cewa idan kowacce ta lullube jikinta ta yadda ba za ta ga tsiraicin ɗaya ba, to ya halatta miji ya sadu da su a lokaci guda. Shin wannan magana tana da asali?

Babu wata aya ko hadisi sahihi da ta halatta wannan aiki. Abin da wasu suka kawo shi ne maganganun wasu malamai a wasu littattafai, amma ba ra'ayin mafi yawan malamai ba ne. Koda ba su ga tsiraicin juna ba. kowacce tana jin abin da ke faruwa, tana ganin motsi, tana sanin abin da ake yi. Wannan ya saɓa da kunya da mutuncin aure. Saboda haka mafi yawan malaman fikihu sun hana hakan.

Shaikh Ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله ya ce: "Ba ya halatta mutum ya sadu da matarsa a gaban wani, saboda wannan yana daga cikin abubuwan da suka fi keta sirrin aure."

Shaikh Ibn Baz رحمه الله An tambaye shi irin wannan tambaya, sai ya ce: Wannan aiki bai halatta ba, kuma ya saɓa wa dabi'ar Musulunci da kunya. Saboda yana keta sirrin aure. Ya saɓawa kunya (HAYAA). Yana iya haddasa hassada da kiyayya tsakanin matan. Yana iya jawo cutar zuciya da rashin adalci. Babu dalili daga Al-Ƙur'ani ko Sunnah da ya halatta hakan.

Ra'ayin da ya fi karfi a wajen malamai shi ne: Ba ya halatta miji ya sadu da mata biyu a lokaci guda a daki guda. Ba ya halatta ko da an ce sun lullube jikinsu har ba sa ganin tsiraicin juna, domin babu hujja daga Al-Ƙur'ani ko Sunnah da ta halatta hakan, kuma ya saɓa wa manufar kiyaye sirrin aure da mutuncin ma'aurata.

Abin da ya dace shi ne miji ya ware kowace mace a lokacin da yake mu'amalar aure da ita, domin wannan shi ne ya fi dacewa da koyarwar Musulunci da kuma mu'amala ta alheri.

Allah ne Mafi sani.

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