Shin Ana Shawo Halayen Mahaifiya Ta Nono?

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Assalamu Alaikum malam. Barka da yini don Allah Ina tambaya shin da gaske ne yaro yana ɗauko halin mahaifiyarsa mai kyau ko mummuna ta dalilin Shayarwa da ta yi masa?

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Wa'alaikumus Salám, ‘yar uwa a iya abin da na sani babu inda ya tabbata a Alƙur'ani ko a ingantaccen hadisin Manzon Allah ﷺ cewa yaro yana ɗauko halin mahaifiyarsa mai kyau ko mummuna ta dalilin shayarwar da ta yi masa. Sai dai abu ne sananne a cikin mutane yaro yana iya koyon ɗabi'ar da ya taso ya sami iyayensa a kai, saboda su ne makarantarsa ta farko a rayuwa.

Manzon Allah ﷺ ya ce:"Kowane abin haihuwa ana haifansa ne a kan daidaitacciyar ɗabi'a, sai iyayensa su mayar da shi Bayahude, ko Banasare, ko Bamajushe".

Albukhariy (1385), Muslim (2658).

Wannan na nufin duk wani abin haihuwa ana haifansa ne a kan kyakkyawar ɗabi'a, amma iyayensa ne sukan canja masa ɗabi'ar ta hanyar koyarwarsu, ya zama ya tashi da ɗabi'a maras kyau. Wato kenan ba a nono yaro yake shawowa ba, inda ana shawo ɗabi'a a nono, to da zai zama yaro zai shawo addininsa a nonon uwarsa kenan.

Allah S.W.T ne mafi sanin daidai.

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SHIN YARO YANA ƊAUKO HALIN MAHAIFIYARSA TA DALILIN SHAYARWA?

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Assalamu Alaikum malam. Don Allah, shin da gaske ne yaro yana ɗauko halin mahaifiyarsa mai kyau ko mummuna ta dalilin shayarwar da ta yi masa?

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Wa’alaikumus-salam wa rahmatullah.

‘Yar uwa, babu wata nass a cikin Alƙur’ani ko ingantattun hadisai da ta nuna cewa yaro yana ɗaukar hali — mai kyau ko mara kyau — ta hanyar nonon da aka shayar da shi.

Wannan magana da ake yayatawa ra’ayi ne na al’ada, ba hujjar addini ba.

1. Halin yaro ba ya fitowa daga nono

Idan ɗabi’a tana fitowa daga nono, to da yaro zai shawo addinin mai shayarwa. Amma addinin Musulunci bai ce haka ba.

2. Abin da addini ya tabbatar shi ne:

Yaro yana ɗaukar halaye ne daga tarbiyyar iyaye, ba daga nono ba.

Manzon Allah ﷺ ya ce:

"مَا مِنْ مَوْلُودٍ إِلَّا يُولَدُ عَلَى الْفِطْرَةِ، فَأَبَوَاهُ يُهَوِّدَانِهِ، أَوْ يُنَصِّرَانِهِ، أَوْ يُمَجِّسَانِهِ"

“Babu wani jariri da ake haifarsa sai ana haifarsa a kan fitra (kyakkyawar dabi’a). Sai iyayensa su mayar da shi Bayahude, ko Banasare, ko Bamajushe.”

— Al-Bukhari (1385), Muslim (2658)

Wannan hadisin ya nuna:

Yaro ana haifarsa da kyakkyawar dabi’a

Canjin da yake samu yana farawa ne daga koyarwa, misali, tarbiyya, da zaman gida

Babu maganar cewa halaye suna fitowa daga nonon shayarwa

3. Yaro yana koya ne daga abin da ya gani a wajen mahaifa

Idan mahaifiya mai natsuwa ce — yaro zai gani ya koya.

Idan tana ihu, fada, yawan damuwa — yaro ma zai iya koya.

Idan gida ya cika da tausayi ko fushi — yaro ya fi iya ɗauka.

Wannan duk tasirin tarbiyya ne, ba tasirin nono ba.

KAMMALAWA

Babu hujjar addini da ta nuna yaro yana ɗauko halin mahaifiyarsa ta dalilin shayarwa.

Gaskiyar da addini ya tabbatar ita ce: tarbiyya, yanayi, ilmantarwa da misali su ne ke gina halin yaro.

Allah ne mafi sani.